Hey Hank. Welcome back.
Aren't you going to be a little uncomfortable, hanging out here with the ex-gf here too? Or are you two just going to politely ignore each other?
Come to think of it, why ARE you back here? Did you happen to notice she was back, and thought you'd rain on her parade? Or is it just a coincidence?
/end interrogation of friend's ex-bf's motives... for now, anyway. 
Thank you. Now let me set you straight: I actually signalled my intentions to come back a couple of months ago with a post asking what was going on. I then started just lurking, because well, with a shitty few months behind me I wasnt much in the mood of diving headfirst back into a place where I might have to be funny once in a while, but now I am in a much better place so I feel like posting. Maybe in hindsight I should've made 47 posts a day since I came back to make my intentions clearer, then maybe your concerns might be directed at someone else raining on my parade. Or does that only work when guys do it?
The only reason we left the forums in the first place (well I did anyway, if she was popping back it was without my knowledge) was because of the drama it was causing the relationship, so of course with no more relationship we were always going to come back. I have met a lot of awesome people here (and Yak
) and it's a place I genuinely like to visit, even if it's not in its prime currently
I am not here to cause drama, I don't desire anything of the sort, I am happy with my life right now, and I wish her all the happiness in the world. I just want to enjoy the company of people I used to talk to a lot, and new people I can talk to a lot. I'm not uncomfortable in the slightest, I'm just here to talk shite
I'm big enough to be civil, are you big enough not to choose a side over something you'll never know the complete truth of?
As for everyone else, thanks
And the sweepstakes winner was "badly sprained ankle we should've just stayed home and RICE'd the shit out of"
