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Re: great expectations and the feminist myth
« Reply #30 on: January 17, 2008, 03:34:47 PM »

Between around 2 and 4 years, the kids are a bit of a nightmare. Mostly they become easier as they get older. I have always loved the time when they're going into Year 5 and 6 at school (around 10-12) - they suddenly turn from young kids into tweenagers, and they really develop definite likes, dislikes and so on. Their personalities become really strong.

Our son's teen years have been pretty smooth so far. I count my blessings that I don't have a Corey.  :-D

Daughter's teen years have been a bit tougher, but it's gotten better recently.

Youngest daughter is shaping up to be quite tough, if this year's anything to go by.  :roll:
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Re: great expectations and the feminist myth
« Reply #31 on: January 17, 2008, 03:42:11 PM »

I know a couple of footy teams that loved yer mum back in the day too.

No wonder I have teh amazingly brilliant sproting prowess that I do!

Awesome.

Now run along and eat a pie or several shopgirl.

Isn't our unwillingness to value to a mum's work due feminism not being embraced, rather than feminism failing us?  Aren't we simply continuing to devalue domestic roles, and insist that women with options put a 'tick in every box' by raising gifted kids/career/22 inch waist/shiny managable hair.  When women find themselves unsupported or forgotten in domestic roles, don't we jump up and down telling them they have the choice to do whatever, so shut up and thank your husband he let you be a feminist?

It just hasn't ever been part of the model.  Being a mum was a job before the concept of paid work (as opposed to fulfilling survivial instinct) was even around.

How do you value it?  What do we pay?

Personally my belief is that the private home shold become a tax deduction AND capital gains free.  That way if you need a bigger house to support a bigger family you get a bigger tax break which can then be used on kids or recognition of mothers.

Of course,it also means that rich people with big arse expensive houses also benefit, but hey, I'm one of them so no problem there.

Equally we* have to do more cleaning given the size of the place so there's a downside there.

Gah, too thirsty to formulate thoughts.

since when has your level of thisrt been a determinant in this?

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Re: great expectations and the feminist myth
« Reply #32 on: January 17, 2008, 03:44:39 PM »

well, narcissists only 'love' others if they are a feeder of their narcissism.

anyway. what you're talking about is called 'oedipus complex' isnt it? :P

As I am indeed a King among men then you are correct.

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Re: great expectations and the feminist myth
« Reply #33 on: January 17, 2008, 03:50:11 PM »

As I am indeed a King among men then you are correct.

SG
More of a Prince Albert I would have thought  :roll:
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Re: great expectations and the feminist myth
« Reply #34 on: January 17, 2008, 07:45:30 PM »

 :lol: :lol: :lol:

I can imagine SG submitting to that...
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Re: great expectations and the feminist myth
« Reply #35 on: January 17, 2008, 08:06:09 PM »

As I am indeed a King among men then you are correct.

*Cue "Blindly supporting the right wing" comments*
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Re: great expectations and the feminist myth
« Reply #36 on: January 17, 2008, 08:15:15 PM »


Now run along and eat a pie or several shopgirl.

Eat a pie?  Go eat a dick, SG.  Smiling vacantly and pandering to the whims of idiots takes more talent than you could imagine.

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Re: great expectations and the feminist myth
« Reply #37 on: January 17, 2008, 10:48:31 PM »

:lol: :lol: :lol:

I can't imagine SG submitting to that...

Pre Viagra days I had to get teh Prince Albert variant where it was rotated 90 degrees.

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Re: great expectations and the feminist myth
« Reply #38 on: January 17, 2008, 10:50:50 PM »

Eat a pie?  Go eat a dick, SG.  Smiling vacantly and pandering to the whims of idiots takes more talent than you could imagine.

I keep giving you all those lessons in how to do it properly and you still can't blow WhoPhD right so I guess we'll go through it all again.

Vacant smiles are undoubtedly a specialty, Paris H does it so well.  If you're dimmer than her then I can understand why, from your perspective,  it would take more talent than you can imagine.

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Re: great expectations and the feminist myth
« Reply #39 on: January 17, 2008, 11:28:30 PM »

Eat a pie?  Go eat a dick, SG.  Smiling vacantly and pandering to the whims of idiots takes more talent than you could imagine.

Oh hear hear. Interim retail drones of the world, unite!!
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Re: great expectations and the feminist myth
« Reply #40 on: January 19, 2008, 01:28:12 AM »

.. no it doesnt.

(and my idiots are worse than anything you two could imagine)
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Re: great expectations and the feminist myth
« Reply #41 on: January 20, 2008, 01:56:13 AM »

Do share. The idiots who frequent Target Cuntry Northam, WA can give your idiots a run for their money!
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