Freddo, being so desperate for a relationship is going to scare them away. Act a bit more cool, dude. Approach the next chickiebabe with a view for fun and enjoyment, aiming to appreciate it while it lasts. If it's not meant to be, don't push it. Desperation is unsexy, even if you don't say a thing about it... it will emanate from your pores.
pft see i hate this shit.
we're all programmed to 'act cool', when inside we all feel those crazy butterflies and excitement at the prospect of a new relationship and just want to go nuts.
so we all play it cool and sit back on our haunches only letting the necessary bits of keeness escape...
then one person thinks the other isn't as keen as they are, so they hold back. and the other one thinks the same thing. so they tread water for a while playing silly mind games because these days it's uncool to tell a people you're keen within the first 10 years of knowing them because you're seen as a clingy, desperate person.
and then when they finally get together, and live a happy fifty years and one of them is on their death bed dying of cancer, they lament and say "if only we had one more day together!"...if they'd stopped playing stupid fucking mind games for yonks they would have been able to jam more into their lives together
i'm with fredson - this brave new world of dating SUCKS.
the internet has made it worse - it's a lot easier to meet people, sure, but it's also a lot easier for people to have multiple bunnies on the boil, seeing which pans out best. i reckon it also breeds insecurity a lot more because it's so easy to 'have bits on the side' and get away with it. subsequently, people learn not to invest emotionally in others lest they get burnt. and it turns our society into a shitty, shallow, petri dish of scarred, self-serving individuals.
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